What would one most expect out of a relationship? Or What would your expectations be when you are in a relationship?
Every individual would answer these questions differently, but I am sure that majority would have included “love” or “loyalty” in the equation, and well, not forgetting “respect”.
Then again, many times I’ve come across break up cases with “it’s too boring” as the base of the breakup.
What do you mean by it’s too boring? Did you stop to think how the other party might feel? What’s so boring? Who made it boring? And obviously, who in their right mind would point faults at themselves? It is always the other person’s fault… "oh, she’s not caring enough” , “oh, he’s not accommodating enough”, or even “well, there are many temptations”.
And the famous one
“there is someone better”
Better in what sense? Better looking? Smarter? Richer?
Hey look! You’ve already know all this when you decide to commit to this relationship. Then why are all these flaws the reason that you are breaking up? Didn’t you already know all these flaws? I’m sure it doesn’t just develop overnight! What happen to through thick or thin, and till death do us part? (ok, this is too extreme, but yeah! ) Isn’t that what being in a relationship is all about?
You know, if given the time and space - I can ramble on and on about this issue =,=
But what got me started on this rambling?
it is this one picture that I came across, and I can’t help but think that it is true.
So here’s to all you guys and gals out there who are judging your partner (or other ppl’s). This saying might be old, but it’s worth the mention “don’t do to others, what you don’t want others to do to you”
signing off for now ~ ♥